I see this baby as an opportunity for Breastfeeding Take #2. My problems with Dexter are well documented, not least because my milk hadn’t come through when little man arrived, the midwives were pushy beyond belief, and Dexter was hospitalised with Strep B at 6 weeks. This time, I know my milk is already there (I won’t go into details - I’m sure you can guess!) and I’m pretty keen to make it a success. So I’m ready to jump headfirst into the unglamorous world of breast pumps, nursing bras and breast pads. Bring it on.
There are the usual anxieties. I’m nervous about managing the feed schedule completely on my own (Craig is many things, but a milk producer he is not). I’m terrified of going out on my own for a girl’s night and springing a leak. And I’m not looking forward to whipping out my breasts in public and having a showdown with restaurant managers nationwide. Nope. Not at all.
When researching the exhibitors at this year’s Baby Show, I got chatting to Bhakti, fellow mum-to-be and owner of Loveyush London. Loveyush London breastfeeding scarves are luxurious covers for discreet (and even stylish!) breastfeeding for when out and about. Keen to prove to me that it is possible to feed-on-the-go without exposing myself, Bhakti sent me one of her gorgeous scarves to put through its paces.
The first thing worth noting is the packaging. A branded box, within a hessian bag ensures that your scarf will arrive in impeccable condition. My scarf even came with a cute lavender-scented pouch so it smelt lovely when I opened the box. There are leaflets aplenty to show you the other designs and how to wear your scarf - the whole package was incredibly impressive and would make a fabulous gift for a new mummy.
I selected the Cavendish design in Dark Blue and I love it. The colours suit me perfectly and it compliments every item in my wardrobe.There are however, tons of other pretty and colourful designs available on the website, and even more being revealed for the first time at the upcoming Baby Show at London ExCel 21-23 Feb.
The key to the scarf is versatility. When you’re not breastfeeding, you need something stylish you can fling around your neck. There are millions of ways of tying your scarf, but I prefer something really simple like this! The material drapes beautifully and is really soft around your neck. It also washes incredibly well at 30 degrees and keeps its shape which is perfect if you have any breastfeeding mishaps.
Then, when baby needs a feed, you simply untie your scarf, pop your head through the hole (much like a poncho), and you have a plentiful scarf to cover all your bits and bobs for a discreet feed. As baby is shielded from the sun and all other distractions he / she will be feed better and faster too! I’ve had to stage a feed here to take a piccie, so that’s my arm creating a baby shape under there!
The material is lovely and thick so you know you’re safe from prying eyes, yet lightweight and breathable so as not to irritate baby. The hole is also wide enough for you to comfortably peek down at baby whilst feeding.
As if all that wasn’t enough, you can also pop your scarf over your car seat to act as a sun shield when you’re out and about! I’ve seen other mums also pop theirs on the grass in parks as a mini playmat for their babies (bit cold and wet to demo this at the moment! - Oh and I suppose I would need a baby!).
The Loveyush scarf also fits handily over pram hoods as a black out blind for baby in the summer. The lightweight fabric ensures they won’t get too hot under there, and the hole makes a handy viewing window so you can check on baby without disturbing her sleep. The hole also means that plenty of air is circulated within the pram for added peace of mind. There’s a fab review over on the Baby Expo blog which shows the Loveyush in action on a pram - as we haven’t bought our pram yet I can’t demonstrate this myself.
It’s a fantastic idea for anxious breastfeeders (like me). I have huge boobs and couldn’t imagine any other way of discreetly negotiating a feed in public. It’s definitely given me the confidence I need to get this show off the road! Costing from £27.50 (mine is £34.79) they’re fabulous value for money too!
If you fancy winning one of these gorgeous scarves (in a design of your choice), Bhakti is currently running a competition over on her Facebook Page, or you can head over to Twitter to say hello and find out more.
I’m so impressed by this simple and clever product, I’m linking up to the fabulous Tried and Tested linky from the gorgeous Kate from Family Fever and Colette from We’re Going on an Adventure!
I received my scarf free of charge in exchange for this review. Any subsequent gushing is purely because I love it!

I have one of these, and it really is fantastic - so easy to use, and so pretty that most people won’t even know you are using a breastfeeding scarf. Thanks for linking up with #TriedTested
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It’s pretty simple when you think about it, but genius as no one else has thought of it.
Mark my words lady we’re going to have you confidently getting those boobs out anywhere and everywhere in a few months time - and whilst it is harder cos you’re the only one who can do it once you get into the swing of it it’s much more convenient than faffing about with bottles


I’m a big fan of anything which makes BF in public easier for people who are feeling a bit nervous so big thumbs up for this one!
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Yep cost and faff-factor are my biggest motivations for doing it. And I’ve heard it helps you shift the baby weight…
This looks great, I am unsure if I will try breastfeeding next time due to what I went through with Sienna! This would be handy if I decided too though
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We are cheering you on for Breastfeeding Take #2! Each baby is different and each breastfeeding experience is different. Wishing you all the very best.
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Love these. Have entered and I’m off to check them out at the Baby Show I hope. Really want one in a plain purple. Due 30th March and having boyfriend’s parents coming to visit straight away so anything helping with a bit of discretion works for me!
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